Wednesday 8 July 2015

What's Happened

In order to understand how much my life has changed in the past six months, I'm going to compose a list of what's happened.
So, as you already know, I went through my first break-up and my Dad had a nervous breakdown. This happened in October and December 2014.
At this time, I was studying an Art Foundation Course in Reading. This involved two hours of walking a day which really dragged my leg back to a very painful place. Even more frustratingly, I passed my driving test but couldn't afford a car, and was not able to use anyone else's. So I had no option but to walk, as no one offered me a solution and I couldn't afford taxis/buses myself earing about £40 a week. So my chronic pain increased dramatically.
Then my Dad spent a month in a psychiatric ward. This was a hard time, especially around Christmas.
He came out quite different, but in a good way, and things improved slightly.
Then my Mum and Dad broke up. It was a very one-sided thing, and made everything a lot more difficult, awkward and hurtful.
This meant that they put our house up for sale, and we should be moving in a few month's time.
Following this, my Grandad passed away. And it was cancer that took him.

This is a lot to happen in less than a year, but what worries me is that I haven't seemed to have reacted yet. I think that I now expect these things to happen, so it doesn't surprise me anymore. This sounds awfully sad, but I feel that I now appreciate it a lot more when something good actually happens; so I am thankful for the improved perspective it has given me.

I will make more detailed posts in the very near future, see you then

 
Sophie xo

4 comments:

  1. That must be quite tough to go through within such a short time frame. Am hopeful you will come out of it stronger. Newton :School of Medicine Kenyatta University

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  2. you are a very inspiring young lady who has overcome multiple battles and as far as I can tell is an amazing role model for all young people. Sophie I know there is 100s of Sophie Hartley's out there but I am searching for a relative I have never met by this name but who as born on the same day as me many years apart....22nd January. My Cousin is David Young Hartley and we have never met. I live in Australia. My mum was Margaret Young Hartley. Even if we aren't related your a champion don't ever forget it sweetie.
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